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 | The BACCHUS Network created this site specifically for college students. It has resources on pretty much every topic, including: basic healthcare, abstinence, dating and relationships, sexual assault and all types of sexual expression. |
| The Sexual Health Network is dedicated to providing easy access to sexuality information, education, healthcare and other resources. It’s easy to find what you’re looking for with information sorted into sections on Men’s & Women’s Sexual Health, Love and Relationships, Sexuality Education, Sexually Transmitted Diseases, and Sexual Health Resources. |  |
 | The Guttmacher Institute aims to advance sexual and reproductive health through social science research, policy analysis and public education. It includes extensive state-by-state information regarding policies and laws around sexual and reproductive health. |
| Amplify Your Voice is a Web site created by and for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and questioning (GLBTQ) young people. In addition to information on sexual health, you can email a peer educator with specific questions, read blogs, learn about current issues regarding social justice and human rights. |  |
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Additional resources by topic
Types of relationships
People are social beings. Students find themselves in many types of relationships throughout their Colgate experience. Relationships should enrich your life through shared support and experiences. Intimate relationships develop that are both sexual and nonsexual. There is no “right” way to have a relationship. Find one that is right for you!
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Communication
Good communication is essential for a strong relationship. You should never be afraid to tell your partner what you want or what feels right. Practice talking about a variety of topics.
Here are some tips:
These web pages are full of fun on-line quizzes to get you thinking more about your relationships and sexuality. Take a few minutes to take a couple quizzes and share your answers with a friend or a partner. You can use your results as a springboard for a great conversation!
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Nonsexual intimacy
You don’t need to have sex to be intimate, and sex does not guarantee emotional intimacy...There are many other ways to be close to somebody! Here are some fun ideas for romance...
Great Date Ideas for Building Intimacy and Closer Bonds
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Consensual activity
It is important to know that your sexual partner is on the same page as you are. The only way to do this is to communicate about what each of you would like. Don’t be afraid to tell your partner what you want and always make sure to ask for permission before moving forward. Asking permission can be done in a variety of ways but talking about it is simplest. Remember, if you don’t have full consent from your sexual partner, you are breaking the law!
Consent (NC State)
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Sexual identity
There are many ways to experience sexual attraction towards others. Your sexual identity is the way you perceive your own attractions. Some examples are homosexuality and bisexuality. The college years are a time when many people develop a stronger sense of their sexual identity. Figuring this out may take a number of years. This link provides more definitions:
Choices Counseling and Consulting
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Sexual health
We are all sexual beings and it is important to practice healthy sexual decision-making. Decisions range from abstaining from sexual intimacy to being sexually active. Some people have not learned much about sex or their bodies before coming to college. It is never too late to learn! Here are a couple of links to get you started:
Sexual Health InfoCenter
Sexual Health (CDC)
Sexual Health (TeensHealth)
Health Topics (Planned Parenthood)
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Keeping sex safe
If you decide to engage in sexual relationships, you need to learn good ways to protect yourself. Knowing your partner’s sexual history, the proper use of condoms and other contraceptives, and choosing your sexual partners carefully are some things to keep in mind. Sex is also safest when drugs and alcohol are not involved.
Safer Sex (Planned Parenthood)
Why should lesbians think about safe sex? (Avert)
Why Doesn't Everyone Practice Safe Sex? (About.com)
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Keep it Sexy, Colgate: events
What does Colgate have to offer this semester in terms of healthy relationships? Here is a calendar of exciting events.
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